So you believe in confrontation. And yet you wonder why things are not working out.
You console yourself by telling, atleast I am not a hypocrite.
Either this or.......
You are philosophical. You believe in your values and you think you are taking a high road. You try to be an example for others by suppressing your emotions or letting them go of their misbehaviour.
Whatever the case, you are still wondering, why things are not working out.
Well, the point is you are proud of being yourself. You just need to find the solution of your problems, which apparently keep recurring.
Its time you realize, theres nothing wrong in being yourself. You just need to be politically correct.
How do u do that? Read along.......
Politics in Relationships, Sounds scary, Right?
Well, it isn't so. Not as much as U might think.
Actually, relationships....- be it friendship, marriage, co-workers etc...is full of politics.
No Matter how much you evade the existence, the fact of the matter is-it exists.
So if ever you want to enrich your relationship quotient, just follow some rules:
1. Feel successful. Its the best way to send signals you are influential.
2. Be modest yet make tough calls. If you feel, someone's bothering you, don't shy away from secluding yourself with his companionship. Master an art of doing it. For eg, the other person happens to wish you good morning, just revert back by tellling, "Uh Oh! I didnt notice you, good morning".
3. Never be detailed. Don't lay your burden of getting understood on others. The only one person who can understand you is you yourself. Let it be on that.
4. Time of Crisis: Don't be quiet. Seek, speak out, explain, elaborate, assert, do whatever but give yourself a platform. Life won't come to you ask you your say, sometimes, and MIND WELL only sometimes, you have to make it clear to the world your say. Now, upon this how other will react is up-to them. But you shouldn't have any regrets in your life.
5. Yet, again, remember, people change. They change. I was a smug myself until I was introduced to the word itself, but now i am not. I am ready to tread cautiously. Likewise, people exhibit behaviour out of their own ignorance, insecurity and upbringing.
6. Life is full of knowledge. Knowledgeable, motivated and hard working people often land up having a content lifestyle.
So take this Blog as a drop of knowledge.
Motivate yourself to try these tricks in relationships
and work hard to make things happen.
You console yourself by telling, atleast I am not a hypocrite.
Either this or.......
You are philosophical. You believe in your values and you think you are taking a high road. You try to be an example for others by suppressing your emotions or letting them go of their misbehaviour.
Whatever the case, you are still wondering, why things are not working out.
Well, the point is you are proud of being yourself. You just need to find the solution of your problems, which apparently keep recurring.
Its time you realize, theres nothing wrong in being yourself. You just need to be politically correct.
How do u do that? Read along.......
Politics in Relationships, Sounds scary, Right?
Well, it isn't so. Not as much as U might think.
Actually, relationships....- be it friendship, marriage, co-workers etc...is full of politics.
No Matter how much you evade the existence, the fact of the matter is-it exists.
So if ever you want to enrich your relationship quotient, just follow some rules:
1. Feel successful. Its the best way to send signals you are influential.
2. Be modest yet make tough calls. If you feel, someone's bothering you, don't shy away from secluding yourself with his companionship. Master an art of doing it. For eg, the other person happens to wish you good morning, just revert back by tellling, "Uh Oh! I didnt notice you, good morning".
3. Never be detailed. Don't lay your burden of getting understood on others. The only one person who can understand you is you yourself. Let it be on that.
4. Time of Crisis: Don't be quiet. Seek, speak out, explain, elaborate, assert, do whatever but give yourself a platform. Life won't come to you ask you your say, sometimes, and MIND WELL only sometimes, you have to make it clear to the world your say. Now, upon this how other will react is up-to them. But you shouldn't have any regrets in your life.
5. Yet, again, remember, people change. They change. I was a smug myself until I was introduced to the word itself, but now i am not. I am ready to tread cautiously. Likewise, people exhibit behaviour out of their own ignorance, insecurity and upbringing.
6. Life is full of knowledge. Knowledgeable, motivated and hard working people often land up having a content lifestyle.
So take this Blog as a drop of knowledge.
Motivate yourself to try these tricks in relationships
and work hard to make things happen.
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