JUST DO IT !!!!!!!!!!

Do you have any area or parameter where you haven't succeeded yet? or maybe not proven yourself yet?
Not just to move ahead of the Pack but even to JUST survive....You need to know this.
All you need is...

1. a small success
2. a small recognition
3. a highlight on your potential
4. a Baby step

A word of praise:

For a Beginner-Artist who's overwhelmed by so much of Practice the art demands...little words of praise by his mentor...boosts his confidence and then the Art becomes his passion.
Its only when the Beginner starts believing that HE HAS IT...He then starts refining his homework and paying a sincere attention in his class.
After which his art starts speaking his personality. His emotions get weaved in his art seamlessly.

A small recognition:

 

I studied in English medium Co-ed school but was never fluent in spoken English. I used to write, understand the language but ‘talking in English’ used to Zip my lips.

It was not until I delivered a speech on stage followed by a loud applause. At that time,  I started believing that I can do it. All by myself, without anyone’s direction.

Since then the journey is ON, till now I fumble. But I am progressing. My daughter’s schooling is a refresh button for me.

I have never been bogged down since, even after I have failed miserably by shifting to Bangalore and discovering that the English I had learnt in fact was full of artificial accent and wrong pronunciation. I caught up. I progressed. I adapted.

It all started when I experienced the loud applause, I was standing on stage and all the eyes were lit. 

A highlight on your potential

 

In Master-chef Reality show, when you get chosen for it….. you jump. You are joyous. You are elated.

You yell aloud: I am gonna be the next Master chef.

You enter the kitchen and start cooking.

You cook with all your Brains and soul.

You try and bring out all your cards on the table.

But ONLY when you experience the WOW response from judges, you feel confident. Till then you had been talking to yourself, thinking on your own, reminding yourself the reason you are there in the kitchen…

When you experience the acknowledgement from the judges, all these talks Stop! And you just focus on your performance.

A little recognition for your skill set helps you shine through.

A Baby step

What does a Baby step imply?

It implies …..

                     ……….Action

You might have been right throughout;

You would have made a complete sense.

Your voice might carry complete sincerity and honesty.

But …

If you wait for approvals, few Nods, understanding, attention, sympathy, empathy,

Nothing of above would be achieved.

To get that small success to get you going, all you need is-  action.

A baby step.

If you have a problem in relationship, stop talking…take the baby step. Stop tolerating what you shouldn’t.

If you think, as a married couple, you need to spend more time, Stop thinking about it. Take a baby step. Arrange a babysitter for your kids, book the show and go watch it.

If you think, you are facing friction with your Boss, don’t analyze. Take your stand by streamlining the process of delivering results your way. And then, that’s it. Be ready for comments and criticism but be your way. You don’t need an hour long discussion with your Boss for it. Let him detangle the threads of your changed way, attitude or style.

Just Focus on Your way, Your Performance.

If you think you are been treated with Bias, Partiality or humiliation….acknowledge it as Your Failure……..

                     ……… instead of others.

Act on it. Make yourself worthy of respect and equal treatment. Seek people who are welcoming to you. Stop spending time with people who would leave you when you are sick. Surround yourself with people who will value you, for what you are and are doing with your own life. Be with people who make you feel worthy of unconditional love and respect.

A Baby step…….is all it requires!