Am I Immature?

What’s Maturity?

Maturity is a sense of understanding where you are able to decide for yourselves what’s best in your situation.

We, as humans have needs. Social needs, physical needs, spiritual needs, emotional needs etc.
The ability to build a structure in life to fulfill our needs optimally is Maturity.

I will call it absolutely Immature to give in to the Status Quo or any sort of Obligations.

Immature people don't have Guts. They are like a Football to their own apprehensions. They move their concern on a scale of more or less depending on their convenience.
Whereas Mature people sit and assess their needs. Acknowledge them and try and form a structure around it. 

Immature people can’t decide for themselves what suit them the best. They are overly worried for someone; they are full of fear of being judged or being cut off from a social circle etc.

Mature people, on the other hand, seek the concerned people. Clarify, remove any buds of misunderstanding and push ahead their sense of maturity...

Immature people use the language of, "MY way or Highway" without explanation. Mature people are verbose. They try to convince and justify.
 Immature people have a superiority complex. They have an attitude that they know what’s best for others and they can decide for others. And as if this wasn't enough, after doing it, they want others to follow their authority. Mature people think whats best for them and how it can be best suited in the situation. They seek others involved only to create a supportive environment.

Mature people never play the dirty game of politics. They take the battle head on. They can be sought. They talk. They clarify.

They care a heck about how the world perceives them. Coz if they care enough, they seek the world and make them hear their end of the story. They will do this only and only when they deem it fit in the situation.


Maturity is not related to age. It’s related to realization. It’s about clarity. It’s about foreseeing. It’s about identifying yourself with something bigger than you. And that thing will be your priority. Everything else will take a backseat.  It’s about thinking of you as a part of a whole.
Majorly, it’s about being in charge to decide what’s best for you.....